Wally World- No Companion- The Tale of A Black Woman Looking for Love Part 1

Hey everyone. I hope that you all had a wonderful and safe Christmas and New Years'. I wanted to write about something that came to my attention and is starting to get a lot of media attention as well. The number of African American females who are fail to get married or steady relationships is on the rise. Watch this video and then read my summary and advice. ( Follow the link; copy and paste it)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bJGMAhWpDF8&feature=player_embedded#

After Watching the video myself I came to a conclusion about black women. Most of your men problems are problems that you create yourself. Point blank.
Black women do either one of two things- They either make unrealistic demands when it comes to looking for a man or they simply fall for a dude who aint got nothin goin for himself and then she assume that all black men are dogs.

Lets begin with the latter. I see it everyday. A young black women who is very attractive and smart, is complaining about her man and why he does her the way he does. Nine times outta ten you heard about how he was before yall got together. And 10 times outta those 10 he gon do the same shit to you that he did to his past women. Now the women is pissed at the man for not treating her right, but in truth it was her not doing right by herself.
Todays black female doesnt notice the black guy who does the right thing until he gets to that point where either- 1. His pockets are fat 2. He got something she can benefit from. Most black women love a dude who runs the streets, makes alot of money (illegally) and has a decent car. Its simply the fast life. As many of you reading this know, the fast life always comes to an end. Many of these dudes doesnt just have one girlfriend and if a women is dumb enough to believe that then all i can do is shake my head. Come on ladies think. Most of yall looking for the same thing in the hood and dont you think that if a dude has a chance to get his with another women and keep you (without you knowing) that he aint gon do it.
The sad and most sicking part about the situation is that (some) black women feel that if they get pregnant by the dude it will "change" him. WRONG. He still going to cheat on you, lie to you and most likely do it even more. Now the women is stuck with a child that she most likely raising by herself and leading down the same path that the father or mother went through thus continuing the cycle.
Ladies you say that we are dogs but answer this: If you is a lose pitt bull in the street would you walk to it and pet it or turn around and walk away? Many of you let men be dogs and can not blame them for being them, but you have to blame yourself for choosing them and note having enough moral courage to better your situation.

*Note- I know that not all of our black women are like this but make sure you read every part this week before you pass judgement on what im saying.

* Im not saying that men are right and Im not saying yall wrong. All Im sayin is that we all make dumb mistakes im just helping opening eyes. I will be doing a version from a womens view after I complete this project.